Good day good people around me, 
  I'm Adebayo Ismail, I'm 31 married with kids. A Nigerian/Togolese. 

I want to seize this opportunity to share with you what a complicated origin I live in. 
As a very little boy, i grew to know Kaboli somewhere in Togo while my mother kept on telling me I was born in Oyo (Oyo state of Nigeria). That she decided to move home after my father  untimely died by road accident then, painful. After many years, one old man from another neighbouring village Goubi (still in Togo) would come and claim me back home! He was my grand father . At this village, I also found out that my grand pa was adopted by another family from Kpéssi(Togo) and he is signing their name. Meanwhile, his father was from Kaboli and then Manigri(this time, it's Benin Republic) hmmmmmm....very twisting. 
  Where I'm going is I learnt that these three(3) villages : Kaboli, Goubi (Togo)and Manigri (Rep of Benin) were founded by Yoruba people respectively from Ile ifè (Osun state, Nigeria) Making me accept that I originally originated from Nigeria. But I'm not totally right again! Because Yoruba's history also teaches that it's race came from Egypt!!!  with all this rop I refuse to blame myself for not making it right till date. 

My good people, people of wisdom, my question here is: 
      1- Could this be the biggest reason why I'm still unable to be successful?
      2- I used to change works a lot, especially at the peak time when I should stay a little to be rewarded. Always afraid to take risks, but I have made up my mind to be a new/changed person starting this new year. 
  -Can I? 
       3- Any pieces of advices? 

Thanks, 
Bayor Ismail, from Lagos-Nigeria. 

Sorry for any  mistakes or grammatical errors,....